The Intrinsic - The Ur’s Notebook
How does one create a prosperity circle? Simple! Just follow the trail of needs
from you until you are back at yourself. Every one of your needs has such a
trail. The difference between prosperous people and non-prosperous people is
just how closely they fit their own set of prosperity circles; the further one
gets from the circle, the less likely one is to succeed in meeting one’s own
needs. The outcome is a lack of success in the things that matter in life.
The Mental - Thoughts or Lessons
A few issues ago, we published a formula for Results, describing what we have
called The Money Game. As a quick reminder, the Money Game was a simplified
approach to an economic theory, which showed how money works in the real world,
by circulating through a group of people. In real life, those circles can be
millions of people wide, but the effect of this is only to make the whole more
difficult to see. Some people have written to us saying that we need to expand
on how to get into a circle that makes an individual wealthier, or at least
prove that such circles exist. They have a point: what good is a theory if it
does not have an immediate application in the real world? The first step is
to really put yourself on-Purpose. We have, in many articles, suggested that
Purpose is defined as “Meeting your own needs by meeting other peoples’ needs,
based on your own standards”. This is the starting point. Look at your own needs.
List them as carefully as you can, and as completely as you can. Then pick ONE
of those needs. Look very closely at how that need is filled for you. Does it
take one person? A business? If someone or something is meeting that need for
you, then you have a new point to start examining. Look for a need that person
or business has, beyond what you give in return for meeting your need. Again,
isolate a single need. Find how it is being met. Follow the trail through everyone
(including businesses) involved. The trail may not always have exactly the same
need, but there is always a need that leads to someone else. If you follow the
trail far enough, you will find that it leads back to YOU, no matter how long
the trail is. Which means that you can then make a last connection: from you
to the person or business who meets a need for you. Repeat the process with
other needs you have. Even the least involved person finds that there is a whole
series of trails. This is NOT theory; this is REALITY! Those trails you have
found are the paths that money takes, from your pocket (or bank account) back
to your pocket (or bank account). The majority of people in the world are employed.
For practical purposes, this means that the need they meet are the needs of
their employers. They see only ONE customer for their talents. But that employer
meets needs for at least one buyer, who meets needs for other buyers, and so
on, until the circle comes back to meeting the employee’s needs. It does not
matter which direction you search: eventually you find your position in the
whole circulation pattern.
The Relational - Dealing With Others
The concept above is simple, but it is extremely hard to accept that it works.
The reason for this difficulty is that we normally concentrate on the obvious:
this is money. We only see that the employer is paying us for services rendered,
or what we use our talents for. The result is that we only see one relationship
that gives us the wherewithal to meet our needs: the relationship between our
employer and ourselves. We tend to view the meeting of our needs as if we dealt
with only one supplier. When we start our own businesses, we try to create the
same simple one-to-one relationship by lumping our buyers into one single category
- “customers”. We know that we might have one or ten or a thousand buyers, but
it is easier to ignore the fact that they are many individuals with the same
set of needs that we meet. This allows us to assume that our business is based
solely on cash flow in and cash flow out, whether with a cash book approach
or a full accounting approach. In terms of the Money Game, we see only the person
we “sell” our smile to, and the person whose smile we “buy”. These are the only
transactions in which we participate directly. The more complex life gets, the
more we focus on making the whole system fit with the simplicity of the single
circle. We reduce our relationships only to those that we can directly control
or observe. Reverse the process: instead of looking where you get paid from,
look at all the places your money goes, and recognise that all of them must,
eventually, go back to you, your business or your employer. Stop thinking in
one-on-one terms, and realise that you have a relationship with everyone in
all the circles that meet at you.
The Physical - Making It Work
Once you start recognising that you are a node through which many circles meet,
it becomes a lot easier to decide how you can best meet your needs by meeting
others needs. You start to realise that you only ever work for yourself. This
is NOT selfishness, but a simple recognition that you are an important part
of the process. Look at ways you can meet the needs of more people (increase
your buyer base). The more needs you can meet, the greater your control of all
the circles to which you belong. The greater your control, the more you can
find the ones which contribute most to your prosperity. You can start to apply
the Paretto Principle: cut out those that contribute least, so you can add more
to the ones that give you most. It is not easy, but, if you want to be independently
wealthy, it is absolutely essential. There is no facile way to do it, and no
one can do it for you. Make you own choices, and you will find that you get
more satisfaction out of your own life.
The Completion - Sign-off
For those of you building web businesses, your circles involve building links
with like-minded businesses, your customers and your suppliers. We recommend
you purchase the following book, Power Linking and that you visit and learn
from Links101.com. Oh and don’t forget to link your site while there. Final
word - Don’t forget to ask us to exchange links with YOU! Yours, in the spirit
of the Three F’s (Fun, Fitness, Funds) and the life equation: F equals F times
F squared In the sequence that fits you best, Peter and Roberta At Formula Three
Five Ltd. http://www.formula-for-success.biz/ mailto: peter@formula3-5.biz (use
this one if you want to give us negative feedback) mailto: roberta@formula3-5.biz
(use this one for positive feedback).
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